Help?? Honest, serious, non-childish/non-naiv answers needed!?
If you were a nice guy (age between 23-27), who studies or has a good job, who loves to travel the world & has a good sense of humour, would you date a young woman, 21 years of age, who: - has travelled half the world & loves travelling over all - was born in London (UK) & is half British, half Swiss - Lived/grew up in UK (3.5 years), Israel (6 years), South Africa (4 years) & currently lives in Switzerland - speaks English (like a mother language), Swiss German, High German (with French accent for some strange reason), a bit of French, used to be able to speak Hebrew & wants to learn Arabic - has switched schools 11 times - loves to laugh & has a good sense of humour - is nice - considering you're nice to her - & not arrogant - loves animals - is non-smoker, but does drink (not over-the-board though) - can some times be a little crazy - everyone says she's smart - has a job as a secretary in a school of a none-profit-organisation - is also getting educated to study journalism, psychology or social work later on - some times can be shy at the beginning, if she doesn't know you - can't cook - loves to eat all kinds of foods from different countries (Indian, Thai, Chinese, Lebanese, Moroccan (Arabic in general), Italian etc.) - looks good, I guess.. all her friends think she's "cute" & she was asked by a model agency at the age of 5 to become model for them (declined though). Has thick, long, curly, dark blond hair, dark brown eyes, is thin & 1.64 metres tall/short (however you look at it) - likes to go jogging, used to do self defence arts & would love to play street hockey (unfortunately all clubs around her area are only for men) - loves movies/going to the cinema, listening to music, loves playing piano, reading books & going out with her female friends - has lost her older brother, who was seriously a genius & whom she really loved (in a brother-sister type of way!), 3 years ago through a plane crash in Morocco & still suffers from the pain of loss of him, like it just happened yesterday, even though no one notices - hardly knows anyone from her family, besides her parents & her grandaunt - unlike most girls, you'll probably never see her crying - is very loyal to the people she loves - does not like being some "next girl on the list" of a guy (hates players) If no, why not? If yes.... why am I still single?! :( I'm tired of always dating jerks. Last date - who a close friend of mine set up with her friend - was with a guy, who was 29, going through divorce, had a child, no job & we ended up going to a gay bar, him drinking a bit too much & trying to take me to his apartment for more than just a kiss...! Thanks in advance for your answer!
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OK first and foremost...im surprised that you have noticed all the wonderful qualities and attitude...thats good...your somewhat normal. my thing is that you should probably not look at yourself.but look at the men that you have dated and why hasnt it worked out. If you know what you want you shouldn't have to settle. And i know a lot of guys who would like an accomplished young lady as yourself...you just have to continue being yourself..one of the greatest romances have been spontaneous and never predictable...OR MAYBE....your standards are to high? i think you should just sit down and see whats the problem.
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Dating life really sucks sometimes doesn't it? Your self description is well written indicating an above normal intelligence. Your dilemma comes from the society you live in. Men and Women today are what they were educated to be by the public education system in unison with the entertainment industry. While that doesn't resolve your relationship problem, I submit it for your consideration which gives you additional knowledge with which to build your future opinions. My opinion on your question is the age range of your future love. All of the qualities you seek in a man are rarely found in men under 30. I would suggest that you expand your age range to men at least 10 years older than yourself. I will bet you that if you do, you will notice an identifiable difference in the conduct of the man you are dating. Good luck.
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